If you clicked on this story, it's probably because you have no idea what your kids are saying.
Hi! Welcome to the club.
Thanks to the internet – mostly TikTok, let's be real– new slang words and phrases are popping up all the time, making it hard to have a conversation with your offspring.
A sample conversation with a teen: "Oh, that VSCO girl? She's definitely not in my squad. But I stan her swagger even though those scrunchies are trash. Hundo P. OK, boomer?"
Translation: A trendy girl is not in your child's group of friends, but she appreciates her confidence even though her big ponytail holders are terrible. She 100% thinks that, don't you understand, you old, out-of-touch mom?
Got it?
Here's a list of teen slang terms and their definitions. Hopefully it'll help youbetter understand what your kids are saying.
VSCO girl
Ah, the VSCO girls. You'll recognize these girls if they have scrunchies in their hair, sip out of Hydroflask water bottles and wear oversized sweatshirts. The term "VSCO" comes from the camera app VSCO. There are many explainersif you'd like to go more in-depth with the term, which has turned into a full-fledged meme.
sksksk
VSCO girls can often be heard saying "sksksk," to the confusion of many. Yes, this is the sound you make when you hit lots of keys at once on your keyboard. Buzzfeed notes this term didn't begin with the VSCO girls but started in the black community (as does much viral online chatter).
And I oop
Still with us? Drag queen Jasmine Masters said "and I oop" in a viral video clip, which sent the internet (and yes, eventually, the VSCO girl section of the internet) into a tizzy.
You can say "and I oop" when someone says something unexpected or provocative.
OK, boomer
Gen Z and millennials are retaliating against the baby boomers' perception of them with the phrase, "OK, boomer." When someone responds to someone or something with "OK, boomer," they are basically calling that thing old, out-of-touch and resistant to change. "Boomer" catchphrases have existed for some time, but "OK, boomer" has gained traction throughTikTok.
More:Radio host schooled after comparing 'boomer' to N-word; Dictionary.com, more on Twitter react
Karen
Poor Karen. She's right up there with Felicia. A "Karen" is typically used to refer to an entitled mom, who can be a bit irritating with her frequent requests to "talk to the manager." She may also have a giant bob haircut and drive a Volvo.
Bruh
Generally used to start off a story. You can call anyone a bruhbut should probably reserve it to friends and not, say, a supervisor. For example: "Bruh, you won't believe what just happened to me."
Chad
These days, a Chad would be ahyper-masculine and overtly sexual young man.
Sis
Sis can be used in multiple ways. If someone asks you what happened and you respond with "Sis," it means there's a whole lot of drama that unfolded and there's a whole lot more to the story. "Sis" can also be used as a term of endearment.
Stan
A stan is a fan. But like a super-obsessed fan. It originated fromEminem's music video for "Stan" where an obsessive fan by the name of Stan (look at that) commits suicide after sending multiple unanswered fan letters to the rapper.
Trash
Garbáge. Horriblé. Used to refer to something that is absolutely unacceptable because it's all-around terrible. Like when you tell your friends your boyfriend is celebrating Valentine's Day on Feb. 15 because he has to "work" on Feb. 14. Yeah sis, that man is trash.
Goals
Similar to the literal meaning of goals. When you see something you want or aspire to be like, you say "goals." Like when Beyoncé and Jay-Z closed down the Louvre for a music video. Goals. Often, you'll find a word in front of it like "couple goals." Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard are "couple goals."
Squad
The people you hang out with, like your family or your close group of friends. These are your "ride or die" kind of friends. If you see a squad that you admire or want to have, that's "squad goals."
Hundo P
Short for "hundred percent." Absolutely, for sure, you are definitely confirming that thing 100%. Want to go to Costco for free sample day? Hundo P.
Savage
Savage is whensomeone does or says something completely outrageous and doesn't fear the repercussions or consequences of their actions.For example, if you told your friend you wanted the last cookie out of the cookie jar and then they tookit and ate it right in front you, that's savage.
Fire
In this case, fire is good. It means great, amazing, wonderful, all the good things. If you go over to your grandmother's house and she makes that sweet potato pie you like so much, you can say, "Thanks grams! This pie is FIRE!" The fire emoji can work too.
Also used to compliment outfits, hair, glowing skin and, of course, food.
Sorry to this man
In a Vanity Fair video featuring a polygraph test, Keke Palmer was asked about former Vice President Dick Cheney in relation to her time on the TV series "True Jackson, VP." When the interviewer presented her with a photograph of him, she said she didn't know who he was and that if he came up to her on the street, she wouldn't know a thing. "Sorry to this man," she said, pushing the photo back. And a meme was born.
"Sorry to this man" is said when you don't know who a person is (either because you genuinely don't know who they are or are pretending not to know them in a way to diminish their existence).
Same
People say "same" in response to things they have in common with someone. You are putting up your Christmas decorations early and don't care what anyone else thinks?Same. But it can also be used sarcastically. For example, if you tell a friend,"OMG guys, Justin proposed," they might respond with "same" to mock your happiness.
A mood
"Mood" is similar to "same" except that it is a full-body relatable feeling. Let's set the scene: There is snow on the ground andit's 9 degrees outside. Scrolling Facebook, you see a photo of a cat wrapped up tight in a fuzzy blanket with just his nose sticking out. Mood.
Yasss
Either said in strong agreement to something or to hype someone up. When one of your friends posts a photo on Instagram looking extra hot, it is appropriate and even encouraged to comment "yassss!"
Or when someone says something you really agree with because it spoke to your soul, you can say "yasss!"
I'm dead
The person saying this is not actually dead. This phrase is used in response to something that's so hilarious it has you figuratively dying from laughter. Also used in place of physically laughing.
V
Very. That's it. That's all you really need to know. "V" literally is short for "very,"providing emphasis to any statement. That "unicorn dog?" He's V cute. See also: "p," short for "pretty."
Chill
"Chill" can mean, well, a lot. If someone tells you to "chill," it means you need to calm down a la the Taylor Swift single. If someone invites you to "chill," that means they're asking you to hang out.If someone asks you to "Netflix and chill," that means they're asking you to "watch a movie" – which will undoubtedly lead to sex. Context matters.
Yeet
There's creative variety with this word. It can mean to throw something, said in excitement, in agreement and can also be a dance move. Take your pick. Either way, don't yeet your baby like the woman here.
Gucci
Not your mother's designer handbag. This basically just means some variation of "good."Can be used in multiple ways: Let's say Karen brought a casserole over but she accidentally dumped it on your white carpet and after repeatedly apologizing she can tell you're still a little irritated. Karen may ask if you're OK, and because you don't want to create any more tension, you can say, "I'm gucci" or say, "It's all gucci."
Woke
This has nothing to do with sleep – in the literal sense. Being "woke" means to be socially conscious and aware of racial, gender and myriadinjustices.
Shade
Shade is usually thrown, meaning you'll most commonly hear it in a sentence like, "He threw shade." But it can also be used like, "Why are you so shady?" To throw shade means to make an underhanded critical remark toward someone.
Bet
Bet is used when you're in agreement with something. If someone makes plans and you say "bet," that means you are confirming said plan.
No cap
This basically means no lie. When someone adds "no cap" to a sentence, it serves as a statement that they're not lying. It can also be used as the converse "cappin,'" which means lying. "Why you cappin'?" is asking someone why they're lying.
Tea
There are multiple ways to have your tea. You can sip it, or you can spill it. If you're "sipping your tea," it means that you're minding your own business – basically side-eyeing the situation and keeping it moving. If you're "spilling tea" or "having tea," that means you have some gossip you're about to share.
Eboy or egirl
The internet says these are active internet users, often stereotyped has having an "emo," punk-rock style. The terms seem to be gaining on TikTok.
Disclaimer: This story was written by a diverse group of reporters and editorswith help from people much cooler than we are.
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